Safety & Consent
This community works because everyone here treats consent as the baseline, not an afterthought. These are the standards we hold each other to.
Consent
- Interest is expressed, never assumed. Messages open only when it is mutual.
- No unsolicited explicit content. Ask first, every time.
- "No", silence, or a change of mind are all complete answers.
- Consent given once is not consent given forever.
Privacy
- Never screenshot, share, or repost another member's photos or messages.
- Do not attempt to identify members outside this community.
- What is shared here stays here — including at events.
Meeting in person
- Meet somewhere public first, and take your time.
- Tell someone you trust where you are going and when you expect to be back.
- Arrange your own transport so you can leave whenever you want.
- Trust your instincts. Leaving without an explanation is always acceptable.
Reporting
Every profile and conversation has a report option. Reports are reviewed by a real person, and reporting someone never reveals your identity to them. Behaviour that breaches these standards results in removal.
If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.